The power of example is tremendous when it comes to parents reading to their children. I have been a public-school principal for 35 years. Prior to being a principal, I was a 5th grade elementary teacher for 5 years. When I retired, I became an elementary librarian at a Native American school. In addition, my wife Denise dedicated 24 years to teaching 3rd through 5th grades and special education. We have seen firsthand what reading can do to impact children in a positive manner.

Everything a person does to navigate in life requires reading and promotes success as an adult (i.e., reading directions, job applications, web pages) . . . think about new technology equipment, manuals, road signs, Google, problem solving, etc. Everything we do requires reading as a skill.

Developing the love of reading is vital because it is a skill that requires practice and the engagement of one’s imagination to see the story in their mind’s eye. You have probably heard people say, “I read the book and I’ve seen the movie. I liked the book best.” That is because when we read, we get to develop the pictures and characters the way we see them in our mind using our imagination.

When a parent reads consistently with their child, it builds a stronger bond between child and parent. There are opportunities to discuss elements of a story, helping the child to connect to experiences that the parent can share that relate to the story. The child can learn more about their parent’s personal history. Together they can share laughter, tears, and enhance their relationship through the written text. The bond between parent and child will be strengthened through sharing favorite characters and stories.

Reading together provides more one-on-one personal time. In today’s busy lives this time is essential to developing a positive relationship between parent and child. Reading together can be the medium for this relationship development. Reading beside someone allows the parent and child to be in close proximity also promoting a sense of togetherness.

Lastly, reading together also allows the parent to assess the child’s strengths and weaknesses in regards to their reading skills. It provides an opportunity for the parent to correct and affirm the reading strategies the child is employing as they read and suggest new and better ways to interact with the story. The parent can enhance the learning experience by asking questions about the setting, characters, author’s purpose and the child’s opinion about the story.

Lyle and Denise are genuinely caring and giving individuals, as all the best educators are. We were lucky enough to have Lyle as our boys’ Cub Scouts leader. He was stupendous! He took the time to gauge our sons’ knowledge and abilities, then selected individualized activities for each of them. We’re thankful for the impact Lyle and Denise have left on our family and grateful to be able to share their thoughts with you!

tawny ember